Isbn: 9798996040162 - parenting a parent: controlling the conversation through the role reversal (4 resultados)

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Paperback. Condición: new. Paperback. When Tara Shuler's father died suddenly, she didn't just lose a parent, she inherited one. Overnight, the daughter became the decision-maker: the driving conversation, the doctor conversation, the moving-in conversation, the one about money, about independence, about letting go.If you're an adult child caring for an aging parent, you already know the hardest part of caregiving isn't the medication schedules or the doctor's appointments. It's the conversations. Convincing a parent to stop driving. Getting them to accept help at home. Raising the topic of assisted living without triggering a fight. Talking about finances, medical decisions, and end-of-life wishes with someone who spent decades being the one in charge, not the one being managed.Tara Shuler had spent her career building ConvoControl, a conversation-control system used by sales teams, coaches, and corporate leaders to win high-stakes conversations without pressure or manipulation. She never expected to use it at her mother's kitchen table. But she did, for seven years, caring for her mother full-time after her father's sudden death. In all that time, she and her mother had exactly one real disagreement.Parenting a Parent is the system behind that outcome, rebuilt from the ground up for family caregivers, adult children of aging parents, and anyone facing the role reversal that comes with a parent's decline. Inside, you'll learn how to read the fear underneath a parent's resistance to help, driving restrictions, or medical care, and how to ask questions that create buy-in instead of orders that trigger pushback. You'll learn how to de-escalate tense conversations using the Emotional Volume Dial, and how to use strategic silence and patience to let a parent arrive at hard decisions themselves. You'll get a proven reframing method for handling the objections every caregiver eventually hears, "I'm not going to a home," "I don't need help," "I'm fine," along with practical guidance for navigating disagreements with siblings, spouses, and extended family. You'll learn how to repair a conversation that breaks down, how to recognize when a "no" really means "not yet," and how to start honest conversations about wills, power of attorney, and end-of-life wishes before a crisis forces the issue. Throughout it all, the goal stays the same: protecting your parent's dignity, your own well-being, and the relationship itself through years of caregiving stress.The baby boomer generation is aging into the largest eldercare wave in American history. Millions of adult children are about to sit down at a kitchen table and try to have conversations they don't have language for, with parents who are scared too, and nobody in the room with a map. This book is that map. It isn't a caregiving logistics manual, there are good books already for medication management and legal paperwork. This is a conversation framework, built for the family caregiver, the sandwich generation, the only child suddenly responsible, and the sibling group trying to make hard decisions together, all without losing the relationship in the process. It speaks directly to adult children becoming caregivers for an aging parent, family caregivers managing a parent with declining independence or early dementia, anyone approaching the conversation about driving, housing, or memory care, caregivers navigating sibling conflict over a parent's care, and sales professionals, coaches, and communicators who want to see conversation control applied to real life.Written by Tara Shuler, founder of ConvoControl and author of Everything Is Sales and Questions Close Deals, Parenting a Parent pairs a deeply personal caregiving story with a practical, repeatable conversation system you can use in the hardest conversation you're dreading tonight. Your parent raised you. Now it's y Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability. …