Isbn: 9798245867236 - where have all the good men gone?: a memoir of modern dating, ghosting, and the search for something real (6 resultados)

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Taschenbuch. Condición: Neu. Neuware - This is not a dating advice book.It's not a self-help manifesto.And it's definitely not a guide on how to be 'less intense.'This is a book about what happens when you stop betraying yourself just to be chosen.Written by a neurodivergent woman navigating midlife dating, illness, divorce, grief, and modern dating culture, this book is a brutally honest examination of what love actually costs - and what it shouldn't.Through essays, chapters, and interludes, Marcie U Tomb explores: - Why endurance gets mistaken for love- How emotional labor quietly drains you before you ever realize it- What illness, neurodivergence, and trauma reveal about character- Why chemistry isn't a compass- How clarity gets mislabeled as aggression- Why 'starting over' is a myth - and integration is the real work- What peace costs, and why it's still worth paying forThis book doesn't offer dating hacks or quick fixes. Instead, it names the patterns many people - especially women and neurodivergent people - are taught to normalize: confusion, inconsistency, emotional labor, self-erasure, and being told to 'just be chill.'It's for anyone who: - Has stayed longer than they should have- Has been called 'too much' for being clear- Has confused intensity with intimacy- Has done the work and is still asking, why is this so hard - Is tired of pretending modern dating dysfunction is normalThis is a book about boundaries, accountability, and self-trust.About learning the difference between being needed and being loved.About choosing peace - even when it costs you noise, familiarity, and access.You won't finish this book with a checklist.You'll finish it with language for things you've felt but couldn't name.And once you can name them, you don't unsee them.…

Paperback. Condición: new. Paperback. This is not a dating advice book.It's not a self-help manifesto.And it's definitely not a guide on how to be "less intense."This is a book about what happens when you stop betraying yourself just to be chosen.Written by a neurodivergent woman navigating midlife dating, illness, divorce, grief, and modern dating culture, this book is a brutally honest examination of what love actually costs - and what it shouldn't.Through essays, chapters, and interludes, Marcie U Tomb explores: Why endurance gets mistaken for loveHow emotional labor quietly drains you before you ever realize itWhat illness, neurodivergence, and trauma reveal about characterWhy chemistry isn't a compassHow clarity gets mislabeled as aggressionWhy "starting over" is a myth - and integration is the real workWhat peace costs, and why it's still worth paying forThis book doesn't offer dating hacks or quick fixes. Instead, it names the patterns many people - especially women and neurodivergent people - are taught to normalize: confusion, inconsistency, emotional labor, self-erasure, and being told to "just be chill."It's for anyone who: Has stayed longer than they should haveHas been called "too much" for being clearHas confused intensity with intimacyHas done the work and is still asking, why is this so hard?Is tired of pretending modern dating dysfunction is normalThis is a book about boundaries, accountability, and self-trust.About learning the difference between being needed and being loved.About choosing peace - even when it costs you noise, familiarity, and access.You won't finish this book with a checklist.You'll finish it with language for things you've felt but couldn't name.And once you can name them, you don't unsee them. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.…

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Paperback. Condición: new. Paperback. This is not a dating advice book.It's not a self-help manifesto.And it's definitely not a guide on how to be "less intense."This is a book about what happens when you stop betraying yourself just to be chosen.Written by a neurodivergent woman navigating midlife dating, illness, divorce, grief, and modern dating culture, this book is a brutally honest examination of what love actually costs - and what it shouldn't.Through essays, chapters, and interludes, Marcie U Tomb explores: Why endurance gets mistaken for loveHow emotional labor quietly drains you before you ever realize itWhat illness, neurodivergence, and trauma reveal about characterWhy chemistry isn't a compassHow clarity gets mislabeled as aggressionWhy "starting over" is a myth - and integration is the real workWhat peace costs, and why it's still worth paying forThis book doesn't offer dating hacks or quick fixes. Instead, it names the patterns many people - especially women and neurodivergent people - are taught to normalize: confusion, inconsistency, emotional labor, self-erasure, and being told to "just be chill."It's for anyone who: Has stayed longer than they should haveHas been called "too much" for being clearHas confused intensity with intimacyHas done the work and is still asking, why is this so hard?Is tired of pretending modern dating dysfunction is normalThis is a book about boundaries, accountability, and self-trust.About learning the difference between being needed and being loved.About choosing peace - even when it costs you noise, familiarity, and access.You won't finish this book with a checklist.You'll finish it with language for things you've felt but couldn't name.And once you can name them, you don't unsee them. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.…