ISBN: 9798232725594 - the uncomfortable conversation: negotiation for people who hate conflict (6 resultados)

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Paperback. Condición: new. Paperback. You know you should negotiate. You've rehearsed what to say. And then someone offers you a number and you hear yourself say "that sounds great" before your brain catches up.That's not a confidence problem. It's a nervous system problem.The Uncomfortable Conversation: Negotiation for People Who Hate Conflict is for anyone who finds salary negotiation genuinely terrifying rather than merely uncomfortable. Whether you freeze when an offer lands, accept whatever your boss says to end the awkwardness, or have tried every tip in existence and still can't follow through, you're in the right place.Why standard advice keeps failing youEvery piece of negotiation advice assumes you can walk in without your body staging a full revolt. It assumes confidence can be summoned through mindset, that knowing your worth translates automatically into asking for it. For people wired toward avoiding conflict, that's not how it works. The threat response kicks in before the rational brain catches up. Cortisol shuts down working memory. The voice shakes. The rehearsed words evaporate. And the fastest way to make all of that stop is to say yes.The Uncomfortable Conversation starts with the physiology: why the brain processes salary negotiation as social danger, how cortisol impairs working memory under pressure, and what's actually happening in your nervous system in these moments.Why the math makes this impossible to ignoreA 5,000 dollar salary gap at age 25 becomes more than 600,000 dollars by retirement through raises and compound returns. Women who negotiate consistently earn between one and one and a half million dollars more over a career than women who don't. The math is laid out clearly, not to create pressure, but because most people have never seen these numbers and they change how the decision looks.What actually worksYou get complete word-for-word scripts for every common scenario, written to be read verbatim rather than adapted on the fly. Guidance on where to pause and stay silent after stating your number. Preparation systems that move decisions out of the high-stress moment. Strategies for managing the physical response when it shows up. What to do when they say no. The backlash dynamics that make negotiation harder for women. How to build the skill through low-stakes practice before it really counts.Who this is forAnyone who understands they should negotiate and still can't make themselves do it. People who experience salary conversations as physically threatening. Introverts and people whose nervous systems respond to social risk the way others respond to physical danger. Women navigating the specific penalties that come with assertive negotiation. Anyone who has left money on the table and wants concrete tools for next time.No judgment. No instructions to be more confident. The assumption is you've already tried that. What's here is a realistic look at why this is hard and the exact words to say when your brain goes offline.Approximately 40,000 words. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.…

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Paperback. Condición: new. Paperback. You know you should negotiate. You've rehearsed what to say. And then someone offers you a number and you hear yourself say "that sounds great" before your brain catches up.That's not a confidence problem. It's a nervous system problem.The Uncomfortable Conversation: Negotiation for People Who Hate Conflict is for anyone who finds salary negotiation genuinely terrifying rather than merely uncomfortable. Whether you freeze when an offer lands, accept whatever your boss says to end the awkwardness, or have tried every tip in existence and still can't follow through, you're in the right place.Why standard advice keeps failing youEvery piece of negotiation advice assumes you can walk in without your body staging a full revolt. It assumes confidence can be summoned through mindset, that knowing your worth translates automatically into asking for it. For people wired toward avoiding conflict, that's not how it works. The threat response kicks in before the rational brain catches up. Cortisol shuts down working memory. The voice shakes. The rehearsed words evaporate. And the fastest way to make all of that stop is to say yes.The Uncomfortable Conversation starts with the physiology: why the brain processes salary negotiation as social danger, how cortisol impairs working memory under pressure, and what's actually happening in your nervous system in these moments.Why the math makes this impossible to ignoreA 5,000 dollar salary gap at age 25 becomes more than 600,000 dollars by retirement through raises and compound returns. Women who negotiate consistently earn between one and one and a half million dollars more over a career than women who don't. The math is laid out clearly, not to create pressure, but because most people have never seen these numbers and they change how the decision looks.What actually worksYou get complete word-for-word scripts for every common scenario, written to be read verbatim rather than adapted on the fly. Guidance on where to pause and stay silent after stating your number. Preparation systems that move decisions out of the high-stress moment. Strategies for managing the physical response when it shows up. What to do when they say no. The backlash dynamics that make negotiation harder for women. How to build the skill through low-stakes practice before it really counts.Who this is forAnyone who understands they should negotiate and still can't make themselves do it. People who experience salary conversations as physically threatening. Introverts and people whose nervous systems respond to social risk the way others respond to physical danger. Women navigating the specific penalties that come with assertive negotiation. Anyone who has left money on the table and wants concrete tools for next time.No judgment. No instructions to be more confident. The assumption is you've already tried that. What's here is a realistic look at why this is hard and the exact words to say when your brain goes offline.Approximately 40,000 words. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability.…

Taschenbuch. Condición: Neu. nach der Bestellung gedruckt Neuware - Printed after ordering - You know you should negotiate. You've rehearsed what to say. And then someone offers you a number and you hear yourself say 'that sounds great' before your brain catches up.That's not a confidence problem. It's a nervous system problem.The Uncomfortable Conversation: Negotiation for People Who Hate Conflict is for anyone who finds salary negotiation genuinely terrifying rather than merely uncomfortable. Whether you freeze when an offer lands, accept whatever your boss says to end the awkwardness, or have tried every tip in existence and still can't follow through, you're in the right place.Why standard advice keeps failing youEvery piece of negotiation advice assumes you can walk in without your body staging a full revolt. It assumes confidence can be summoned through mindset, that knowing your worth translates automatically into asking for it. For people wired toward avoiding conflict, that's not how it works. The threat response kicks in before the rational brain catches up. Cortisol shuts down working memory. The voice shakes. The rehearsed words evaporate. And the fastest way to make all of that stop is to say yes.The Uncomfortable Conversation starts with the physiology: why the brain processes salary negotiation as social danger, how cortisol impairs working memory under pressure, and what's actually happening in your nervous system in these moments.Why the math makes this impossible to ignoreA 5,000 dollar salary gap at age 25 becomes more than 600,000 dollars by retirement through raises and compound returns. Women who negotiate consistently earn between one and one and a half million dollars more over a career than women who don't. The math is laid out clearly, not to create pressure, but because most people have never seen these numbers and they change how the decision looks.What actually worksYou get complete word-for-word scripts for every common scenario, written to be read verbatim rather than adapted on the fly. Guidance on where to pause and stay silent after stating your number. Preparation systems that move decisions out of the high-stress moment. Strategies for managing the physical response when it shows up. What to do when they say no. The backlash dynamics that make negotiation harder for women. How to build the skill through low-stakes practice before it really counts.Who this is forAnyone who understands they should negotiate and still can't make themselves do it. People who experience salary conversations as physically threatening. Introverts and people whose nervous systems respond to social risk the way others respond to physical danger. Women navigating the specific penalties that come with assertive negotiation. Anyone who has left money on the table and wants concrete tools for next time.No judgment. No instructions to be more confident. The assumption is you've already tried that. What's here is a realistic look at why this is hard and the exact words to say when your brain goes offline.Approximately 40,000 words. …