ISBN: 9798193562146 - the cost of performing: how to stop self-editing and build a life that feels like your own (5 resultados)

Taschenbuch. Condición: Neu. Neuware - What if the version of you everyone admires is the same version keeping you divided Whether you call it people-pleasing, code-switching, masking, or simply doing what you must to belong, many people learn to edit themselves before they ever learn who they are. They change their voice, body, beliefs, ambitions, relationships, or needs to protect belonging, employment, faith, family, or safety. The performance may be intelligent. It may even produce success. But when survival becomes identity, the cost appears in exhaustion, strained relationships, and a life that no longer feels like your own. In The Cost of Performing, Dr. Christopher Blair draws from decades as an educator, minister, executive leader, husband, father, and man learning to live more honestly. His story grounds a practical, compassionate guide to living authentically without ignoring the real risks people face when they stop performing. Inside, you will learn how to: - Recognize the inherited scripts shaping your choices- Identify what your performance protects-and what it costs- Distinguish privacy from shame-based secrecy, wise adaptation from self-abandonment, and accountability from condemnation- Evaluate professional, financial, relational, legal, and physical risks before making changes- Use small experiments, boundaries, and support systems to build alignment gradually>This is not a demand to expose everything, reject your family, abandon your faith, or destroy the life you have built. It is an invitation to stop letting fear make every decision. You do not have to become unfiltered. You can become integrated-responsible, discerning, and increasingly at home in your own life. …

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Paperback. Condición: new. Paperback. What if the version of you everyone admires is the same version keeping you divided? Whether you call it people-pleasing, code-switching, masking, or simply doing what you must to belong, many people learn to edit themselves before they ever learn who they are. They change their voice, body, beliefs, ambitions, relationships, or needs to protect belonging, employment, faith, family, or safety. The performance may be intelligent. It may even produce success. But when survival becomes identity, the cost appears in exhaustion, strained relationships, and a life that no longer feels like your own. In The Cost of Performing, Dr. Christopher Blair draws from decades as an educator, minister, executive leader, husband, father, and man learning to live more honestly. His story grounds a practical, compassionate guide to living authentically without ignoring the real risks people face when they stop performing. Inside, you will learn how to: - Recognize the inherited scripts shaping your choices- Identify what your performance protects-and what it costs- Distinguish privacy from shame-based secrecy, wise adaptation from self-abandonment, and accountability from condemnation- Evaluate professional, financial, relational, legal, and physical risks before making changes- Use small experiments, boundaries, and support systems to build alignment gradually- Write a personal constitution that keeps your values from being overruled by every room you enter This is not a demand to expose everything, reject your family, abandon your faith, or destroy the life you have built. It is an invitation to stop letting fear make every decision. You do not have to become unfiltered. You can become integrated-responsible, discerning, and increasingly at home in your own life. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability. …