ISBN: 9798191718330 - if only you’d asked me yesterday: why everyone has something to give — until you actually ask for it (6 resultados)

Taschenbuch. Condición: Neu. Neuware - Funny how everyone had exactly what you needed. yesterday. The spare ticket.The introduction.The job opportunity.The money.The room.The contact.The favour.>'You should have told me.''I'd have lent you mine.''Why didn't you ask '>And, of course: 'If only you'd asked me yesterday.' We have all heard it.>And that is where things become interesting. If Only You'd Asked Me Yesterday is a funny, provocative and psychologically intelligent exploration of what happens when hypothetical generosity meets an actual request. Why is it sometimes easier to offer help when nobody is asking for it Why can abundance mysteriously become scarcity the moment somebody reaches for it >And are other people really the problem Carl Halford takes an everyday phrase and follows it into the wonderfully contradictory territory of generosity, friendship, promises, social signalling, self-image, obligation, entitlement, boundaries, leadership and human behaviour. Along the way, you'll encounter Yesterday Generosity-the curious tendency to become exceptionally generous once the opportunity to be generous has safely passed. But this is not a cynical book about unreliable people. Sometimes circumstances genuinely change.Sometimes the request was unreasonable.Sometimes an offer was misunderstood.>And sometimes the person saying, 'If only you'd asked me yesterday'.is us. Through memorable observations, relatable situations, behavioural insight and uncomfortable questions, this short book invites you to think differently about what people offer, what we expect, what constitutes a genuine promise-and what happens when words finally encounter reality. You may become more careful about saying, 'Anything you need.'You may become braver about asking.You may judge other people a little less quickly.>And you may discover that genuine generosity has very little to do with what we would have done. Because yesterday is remarkably easy to be generous with. Today takes courage. Read it for the humour.>Then see how long it takes before you catch yourself saying: 'If only you'd asked me yesterday.'. Nguyen Thi, Hanh (ilustrador).…

Paperback. Condición: new. Paperback. Funny how everyone had exactly what you needed. yesterday. The spare ticket.The introduction.The job opportunity.The money.The room.The contact.The favour.The helping hand. "You should have told me.""I'd have lent you mine.""Why didn't you ask?""If only I'd known." And, of course: "If only you'd asked me yesterday." We have all heard it.Most of us have probably said it. And that is where things become interesting. If Only You'd Asked Me Yesterday is a funny, provocative and psychologically intelligent exploration of what happens when hypothetical generosity meets an actual request. Why is it sometimes easier to offer help when nobody is asking for it?Why can abundance mysteriously become scarcity the moment somebody reaches for it?Why do human beings make promises they genuinely believe at the time-only to behave differently when those promises acquire a cost? And are other people really the problem? Carl Halford takes an everyday phrase and follows it into the wonderfully contradictory territory of generosity, friendship, promises, social signalling, self-image, obligation, entitlement, boundaries, leadership and human behaviour. Along the way, you'll encounter Yesterday Generosity-the curious tendency to become exceptionally generous once the opportunity to be generous has safely passed. But this is not a cynical book about unreliable people. Sometimes circumstances genuinely change.Sometimes the request was unreasonable.Sometimes an offer was misunderstood.Sometimes people simply cannot do what they hoped they could. And sometimes the person saying, "If only you'd asked me yesterday".is us. Through memorable observations, relatable situations, behavioural insight and uncomfortable questions, this short book invites you to think differently about what people offer, what we expect, what constitutes a genuine promise-and what happens when words finally encounter reality. You may become more careful about saying, "Anything you need."You may become braver about asking.You may judge other people a little less quickly.You may make fewer promises-and keep more of them. And you may discover that genuine generosity has very little to do with what we would have done. Because yesterday is remarkably easy to be generous with. Today takes courage. Read it for the humour.Stay for the psychology. Then see how long it takes before you catch yourself saying: "If only you'd asked me yesterday." This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability. Nguyen Thi, Hanh (ilustrador).…

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Paperback. Condición: new. Paperback. Funny how everyone had exactly what you needed. yesterday. The spare ticket.The introduction.The job opportunity.The money.The room.The contact.The favour.The helping hand. "You should have told me.""I'd have lent you mine.""Why didn't you ask?""If only I'd known." And, of course: "If only you'd asked me yesterday." We have all heard it.Most of us have probably said it. And that is where things become interesting. If Only You'd Asked Me Yesterday is a funny, provocative and psychologically intelligent exploration of what happens when hypothetical generosity meets an actual request. Why is it sometimes easier to offer help when nobody is asking for it?Why can abundance mysteriously become scarcity the moment somebody reaches for it?Why do human beings make promises they genuinely believe at the time-only to behave differently when those promises acquire a cost? And are other people really the problem? Carl Halford takes an everyday phrase and follows it into the wonderfully contradictory territory of generosity, friendship, promises, social signalling, self-image, obligation, entitlement, boundaries, leadership and human behaviour. Along the way, you'll encounter Yesterday Generosity-the curious tendency to become exceptionally generous once the opportunity to be generous has safely passed. But this is not a cynical book about unreliable people. Sometimes circumstances genuinely change.Sometimes the request was unreasonable.Sometimes an offer was misunderstood.Sometimes people simply cannot do what they hoped they could. And sometimes the person saying, "If only you'd asked me yesterday".is us. Through memorable observations, relatable situations, behavioural insight and uncomfortable questions, this short book invites you to think differently about what people offer, what we expect, what constitutes a genuine promise-and what happens when words finally encounter reality. You may become more careful about saying, "Anything you need."You may become braver about asking.You may judge other people a little less quickly.You may make fewer promises-and keep more of them. And you may discover that genuine generosity has very little to do with what we would have done. Because yesterday is remarkably easy to be generous with. Today takes courage. Read it for the humour.Stay for the psychology. Then see how long it takes before you catch yourself saying: "If only you'd asked me yesterday." This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability. Nguyen Thi, Hanh (ilustrador).…