Why You Keep Checking Your Phone (Paperback)
Idioma: inglés
Editorial: Publishdrive, 2026
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Librería: Grand Eagle Retail, Bensenville, IL, Estados Unidos de AmericaGrand Eagle Retail
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Paperback. It is 8:52 on a Tuesday and you have sent a message to a man you have been seeing for eleven weeks. By 9:32 you have washed two mugs that were already clean, opened his profile picture to see whether it has changed, and decided three different things about the relationship, one of which was that it is over. At 9:41 he replies: he was on the phone with his mom. If you know that evening, this book is for you. Why You Keep Checking Your Phone is a plain-spoken guide to anxious attachment, written for women who want closeness and fear losing it, who read tone into every text, and who are tired of being told to be chill. It explains what is actually happening in the forty-minute silence: not weakness, not neediness, and not love, but an old and very well-built alarm, installed early by people doing their best, going off at a threat you no longer face. And it explains how to turn the alarm down. Drawing on sixty years of attachment research, from Bowlby and Ainsworth to the adult studies of Hazan, Shaver, Mikulincer and Main, the book walks through the loop that runs your reactions (trigger, story, body, protest, relief, shame) and the three places it can be interrupted: the body, the thoughts, and the beliefs underneath the thoughts. It gives you a small number of tools you will actually use at 9:32 on a Tuesday: the twenty-minute rule, the evidence table, ten other reasons, the four-line request, the pause with a return time. It takes on the questions women ask most: how to stop pursuing an avoidant partner, how to date without your alarm choosing for you, and how to tell a trigger from a red flag. It is written for women because the anxious pattern plays out differently when you were raised to be easy, agreeable and low-maintenance, and taught that having needs makes you "a lot." Everything in it applies to men too. Each chapter ends with something to try. None of it is therapy, and the book says plainly when a therapist is the right next step. What it offers instead is the thing the research calls earned security: the knowledge, finally in the body and not just on the page, that whatever the check marks do, you would be alright. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.…
N° de ref. del artículo 9798953415002
- Título
- Why You Keep Checking Your Phone (Paperback)
- Autor
- Elise N. Harrow
- Editorial
- Publishdrive
- Año de publicación
- 2026
- Estado
- new
- Encuadernación
- Paperback
- Idioma
- inglés
- ISBN 13
- 9798953415002
It is 8:52 on a Tuesday and you have sent a message to a man you have been seeing for eleven weeks. By 9:32 you have washed two mugs that were already clean, opened his profile picture to see whether it has changed, and decided three different things about the relationship, one of which was that it is over. At 9:41 he replies: he was on the phone with his mom.
If you know that evening, this book is for you.
Why You Keep Checking Your Phone is a plain-spoken guide to anxious attachment, written for women who want closeness and fear losing it, who read tone into every text, and who are tired of being told to be chill. It explains what is actually happening in the forty-minute silence: not weakness, not neediness, and not love, but an old and very well-built alarm, installed early by people doing their best, going off at a threat you no longer face.
And it explains how to turn the alarm down.
Drawing on sixty years of attachment research, from Bowlby and Ainsworth to the adult studies of Hazan, Shaver, Mikulincer and Main, the book walks through the loop that runs your reactions (trigger, story, body, protest, relief, shame) and the three places it can be interrupted: the body, the thoughts, and the beliefs underneath the thoughts. It gives you a small number of tools you will actually use at 9:32 on a Tuesday: the twenty-minute rule, the evidence table, ten other reasons, the four-line request, the pause with a return time. It takes on the questions women ask most: how to stop pursuing an avoidant partner, how to date without your alarm choosing for you, and how to tell a trigger from a red flag.
It is written for women because the anxious pattern plays out differently when you were raised to be easy, agreeable and low-maintenance, and taught that having needs makes you "a lot." Everything in it applies to men too.
Each chapter ends with something to try. None of it is therapy, and the book says plainly when a therapist is the right next step. What it offers instead is the thing the research calls earned security: the knowledge, finally in the body and not just on the page, that whatever the check marks do, you would be alright.
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