CHAPTER 1

General Sexy Talking Tips

1. Think of the goal as seducing your lover with words.

2. Draw from your five senses: touch, taste, sound, scent,and sight.

3. When role-playing, use words that are particular to thatcharacter or that character's "job duties." When havingsexual activities in new or creative places, include wordsand descriptions that relate to the environment you are inas well.

4. Laugh off any mistakes, and move on quickly. The purposeof this is to have fun, so don't stress. The more you practice,the more comfortable you will be, and a better talker youwill quickly become.

* Tip: When role-playing, search the house ahead of time forobjects and props that your character will need.

Building on Your"Bedroom Vocabulary"

A-Z

A

Admire: admire

"I admire the way you always ________ to please me.""Sometimes I like to just sit back and admire your ________."

Synonyms: appreciate, treasure, worship

adore

"One of the many things I adore about your bedroom behavioris the way you ________."

Synonyms: idolize

adventurous

"Why don't we see how adventurous we can be this summerand have sex on the beach at night under the stars, or....

Synonyms: daring

amuse

"You always amuse me when you tickle me with a feather orwhen you ________."

Synonyms: charm, please

anal

"A few things we can use to slowly explore anal satisfactionare fingers, small-sized vibrators, and of course, the tongue."

Synonyms: butthole sex.

anchor

"I want you to drop it deep inside of me and leave it in therelike an anchor."

"I want to drop it deep inside of you and leave it in there likean anchor."

Synonyms: weight

arouse

"You can always arouse me when you ________."

Synonyms: stimulate

ass

"You have the most amazing ass. I love to watch it move whenI do you from behind."

"Put your hands on my ass and squeeze as I ride you."

Synonyms: booty, buns (See also body-parts section.)

attraction

"I have always had an attraction to the way you ________."

Synonyms: appeal

B

bare

"There is nothing quite as nice as our bare bodies next toeach other." "What about soaking our bare bodies together ina nice, hot bubble bath?"

Synonyms: naked, nude, undressed

bliss/blissful

"I'm in such a state of bliss after every time we make love.""It is so blissful every time we try something new."

Synonyms: euphoria, paradise

blowjob

"It is always a great start to my day when you wake me upwith one of your amazing blowjobs."

"Why don't you join me in the shower so I can give you a wetblowjob without thinking about how messy it might get."

Synonyms: cock sucking, fellatio, head, oral

bondage

"What do you think about trying some light bondage? We cantake turns tying each other up with an old pair of stockings orthose old ties."

Synonyms: restraint

breasts

"I love when you let me be your captain and motorboat yourbeautiful bosom."

Synonyms: boobs, bosom (See also body-parts section.)

built

"Your legs were built to wear stockings; they fit you so well.""Your body was built for wearing ________; you lookamazing in them."

Synonyms: created, made

bust

"You make me feel so good, I'm going to bust!"

Synonyms: erupt, explode

C

caboosing.

The act of having sex on a moving train.

"What do you think about us planning a trip by train this year,so we can join the caboosing club?"

Synonyms: train banging

camel toe.

The visual effect created when a woman's pants cling too tightlyto the crotch, emphasizing the shape of the vaginal lips.

"It's so sexy when you wear ________, because I can see abit of camel toe. It is such a turn-on."

Synonyms: moose-knuckle wedgie

captivate

"When you go down on me, the way you look up at mecompletely captivates me."

Synonyms: entrance, mesmerize

caress

"The way you caress me on my ________ gives me goosebumps."

Synonyms: fondle, touch

charm

"Keep doing that, and you're going to charm the pants rightoff me."

Synonyms: sweet talk

clitoris

"One of my favorite sensations is when you/I suck on my/your clitoris."

Synonyms: clit

consume

"I want to kiss you all over and consume you."

Synonyms: devour

cream/creamy.

Additional words that can be used to describe cum or otherbodily fluids.

"I can't wait to taste your cream-filled center."

"It's so exciting when you explode and cream all over me."

Synonyms: pussy juice, semen

cum

"Give me ________ seconds of a warning before you cum,so I can be ready and we can cum together."

Synonyms: climax, orgasm

D

dance/dancing.

Bouncing up and down on the cock, with enthusiasm.

"It felt amazing last night the way you were dancing all overmy cock."

"How about we go salsa dancing, then later I can dance aroundon your cock?"

Synonyms: riding the cock

daring

"Next time you're in a daring mood, why don't we have sex in/at ________?"

Synonyms: adventurous, bold

dazzle

"Every time you use your tongue to ________, you dazzle me."

Synonyms: overwhelm

deep-throat.

To perform fellatio (dick sucking) to where the penis issticking in the throat, causing a gag reflex.

"You know just how to deep-throat me. I love your mouth."

"Sit back, baby. Let me see how far I can deep-throat you."

Synonyms: swallow

delicious

"Your body always tastes delicious, especially when ________"

Synonyms: delightful, pleasing

delight

"When you tell me to ________, it is pure delight."

Synonyms: bliss, ecstasy, pleasure

desire

"I desire you most when you ________."

Synonyms: fancy

discipline

"If you insist on being naughty, I'm going to have to disciplineyou, maybe with a bare-bottom spanking."

Synonyms: punish

dom/dominant

"Next time we role-play, we should take turns being the domor dominant in our adventure."

Synonyms: authority/authoritarian

dominatrix

"What do you think about me buying you a black latex outfit,so one night you can be my dominatrix and I'll be your willingsex slave?"

Synonyms: mistress

E

electric

"Your kiss, your touch, your scent ... Everything about you iselectric."

Synonyms: dynamic, spirited

enchanting

"The way you ________ is completely enchanting."

Synonyms: captivating

entice

"Even when I may not be feeling in the mood, you know justhow to entice me by ________."

Synonyms: attract, lure, tempt

erection

"You can always put me in the mood and give me an erectionwhen you suck on my earlobes or my ________."

"I love feeling your erection grow against me through your pants."

Synonyms: boner, chubby, hard-on, stiffy

erotic

"I was thinking of buying an erotic storybook so we can readeach other an erotic bedtime story at night, and then maybemake our own."

Synonyms: sensual, sensuous, sexy

excited

"I can't help but get excited every time you ________."

Synonyms: enthusiastic, impassioned

F

fantasy

"What fantasy would you like to live out next time? We shouldmake a list ..."

Synonyms: dream

feisty

"You are extra amazing when you get feisty like a firecracker."

Synonyms: fiery

fellatio

"You are utterly fantastic at fellatio, my dear."

Synonyms: blowjob, cock sucking, deep-throating, givinghead, hummer, oral, sucking dick

fetish

"How about we try out one new fetish a month? We can taketurns each month choosing which one, and you can go first."

Synonyms: sexual adventure

fill up

"Oh, yes, baby. I can't wait to feel you fill me up!"

"It is such an amazing treat when you tell me to fill you upwith my love."

Synonyms: fulfill, internal ejaculation

flirt

"It still turns me on just as much as when we first starteddating whenever you flirt with me."

Synonyms: tease

frisky

"I can tell you're feeling frisky when you ________."

Synonyms: horny

flash

"Why don't we wear nothing but trench coats next time we gogrocery shopping late night, so we can flash each other as wepass in the aisles."

Synonyms: expose, show off

flood

A flood of juices as I brought her to orgasm let me know I hadfinally stimulated her G-spot.

Synonyms: explosion, gush

flowing

Our juices were flowing as we made love on the kitchen table.

Synonyms: running

fox

"You are one sexy fox!"

Synonyms: vixen

G

glorious

We had a glorious time skinny-dipping in our pool on a hotsummer day.

Synonyms: enjoyable, gratifying, magnificent

glow/glowing

They were both glowing after sneaking away to have sex, thenreturning to the party.

Synonyms: blushing, flushed

gorgeous

"You were the most gorgeous woman at the party tonight."

Synonyms: dazzling

going up inside

"I love the feeling of going up inside you when we have sexstanding up."

"I love the feeling of you going up inside me when we have sexstanding up."

Synonyms: entering

grand

Eating chocolate syrup and strawberries off each other was agrand experience to share.

Synonyms: great

great

"Come here, baby. Let me kiss that great, big, gorgeous cock."

Synonyms: enormous, gigantic, huge

grateful

"I am grateful to you for your love and for your oral skills."

Synonyms: obliged, thankful

grope

I told him to grope my body in the darkness, with nothingmore than candlelight.

Synonyms: feel, probe

G-spot

The best way to stimulate her G-spot is to insert the first twofingers, fingerprints facing upward and massage that softbutton of inner tissue about two inches deep and towardthe roof of the vagina. Rub the clitoris to help her relax if shebegins to tighten up.

Synonyms: love button, Gräfenberg spot

gush

As he continued to stimulate my G-spot, I gushed all over thesheets.

Synonyms: squirted

gyrate

"When you grind and gyrate on me, it sends me over the edge."

Synonyms: revolve, twirl

H

handsome

"Baby, you are still as handsome as the day we met."

Synonyms: attractive

heart

"You make my heart skip a beat when you ________."

Synonyms: soul

heat

"Baby, you sure know how to bring the heat."

Synonyms: excitement, hotness

heated

A heated phone sex conversation always makes the sex spiciernext time.

Synonyms: fierce, impassioned, passionate

hole

"I want you to enter my hole like you are a golfer aiming for ahole-in-one."

"I want to kiss and lick you from one sexy hole to another."

Synonyms: opening

hot

They were both so hot with excitement when they heardsounds of sex coming from the hotel room next door, thatthey began to have sex themselves.

Synonyms: aroused, heated, sultry

horny

"I can't help but become horny when you ________."

Synonyms: aroused, turned on

hug

"Let me hug you, because I love how close it makes me feel to you."

"Let me hug your cock with my lips."

Synonyms: embrace, squeeze

hunger

"When we go a few days without having sex, I begin to hungerfor your love."

Synonyms: appetite, lust

hump

Dry humping can be an extreme turn-on when you are havinga make-out session.

Synonyms: grinding

I

impressive

"That new move you used on me from our Kama Sutra bookwas impressive."

Synonyms: awe-inspiring, awesome

immense

The nipple clamps we tried out brought us both immenseexcitement.

Synonyms: monumental, tremendous

impulse

I got the impulse to join my lover in the shower this morning.How amazing that turned out to be!

Synonyms: inspiration

inhibitions

"This weekend when we go away, let's leave our inhibitions athome and just enjoy every moment and every new thing we try."

Synonyms: constraints, suppressions

intense

Whenever we explore tying each other up or ________,we both feel an intense passion.

Synonyms: passionate, strong

intimate

Taking and making the time to be intimate with your partneris what will help keep your sex life strong.

Synonyms: sexual

intoxicating

Making love in the rain was an intoxicating idea.

"Your kisses are intoxicating."

Synonyms: alluring, enticing

J

jam it in

"I love when you take control and tell me to jam it in you."

"It feels so good when you jam it in me."

Synonyms: penetrate, push, shove

jiggle

"Just lie back and let me jiggle on your cock."

"It drives me wild when you jiggle all over my cock."

Synonyms: bounce, grind

juggle

"Hold on to my breasts while I ride you, so it feels like you aretrying to juggle them."

Synonyms: jiggle, shuffle.

juicy

"It is so sexy how juicy you get when I ________."

"You make me feel so juicy when you ________."

Synonyms: moist, succulent, wet

K

Kama Sutra.

Book that shows sexual positions and gives other helpfultips. It contains instructions and pictures of several differentpositions of intercourse. The goal of this book is for morevariety and gratification in your sexual practices.

"I think we should try one of these Kama Sutra positions atleast once a week/month. Some of them look really fun andare a twist on our favorite positions."

Synonyms: sculptural positions

kindle

Kissing by the fireplace began to kindle even more heat.

Synonyms: ignite

kinky

"You are so sexy when you come up with new kinky ideas forplaces to do it outside the bedroom."

Synonyms: erotic

kiss

"Let me kiss your body from north to south."

Synonyms: smooch