The Kids We Misunderstand (Paperback)
Idioma: inglés
Editorial: Rj Koehler, 2026
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Paperback. What if the students we struggle with the most. are the ones we understand the least?Every school has them.The students who are labeled difficult.Disrespectful.Unmotivated.The ones whose names are mentioned before they even walk through the door.But what if behavior isn't the problem?What if behavior is communication?What if the actions that frustrate us most are actually signs of unmet needs, past experiences, trauma, or challenges we cannot see?In The Kids We Misunderstand: How Connection Changes Behavior, Builds Trust, and Transforms Schools, educational leader RJ Koehler shares powerful real-life stories and practical strategies from years of working with students impacted by trauma, poverty, violence, instability, and loss.From students working overnight to help support their families.To students carrying invisible emotional wounds.To students whose choices reflect struggles far beyond the classroom.This book reveals what educators often don't see and explores what becomes possible when we choose connection over control.This is not a book about lowering expectations.It is not about excusing behavior.It is about understanding the story behind the behavior so educators can respond with empathy, accountability, and purpose.Inside, educators, school leaders, counselors, and student support professionals will discover how to: Understand student behavior through a trauma-informed lensBuild authentic relationships with students who feel disconnected or misunderstoodCreate classrooms where students feel safe, valued, and ready to learnUse restorative practices and relationship-based strategies to address challenging behaviorsStrengthen student engagement, belonging, and trustTransform school culture through connection-driven leadershipThrough honest storytelling and practical guidance, RJ Koehler challenges educators to rethink discipline, classroom management, and the way we define student success.Because the truth is: These are not bad kids.They are kids carrying things many of us were never asked to carry.And when we take the time to truly see them, we do more than change behavior.We change lives.Perfect for teachers, principals, administrators, counselors, special education professionals, education students, and anyone committed to creating trauma-informed schools where every student has the opportunity to grow.Continue exploring RJ Koehler's work through her memoirs: What He Didn't Break: A Memoir of Narcissistic Abuse, Survival, and Reclaiming Your LifeWhen Love Is Not Enough: A Memoir of Parenting, Trauma, and SurvivalChoosing Life After Loss: A Memoir of Survival, Suicide Loss, and Learning to Live AgainThe Weight of Silence: A Memoir of Childhood Trauma, Survival, and Reclaiming Your VoiceAcross her professional and personal writing, RJ Koehler explores one powerful truth: Connection changes everything. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.…
N° de ref. del artículo 9798994500552
- Título
- The Kids We Misunderstand (Paperback)
- Autor
- Rj Koehler
- Editorial
- Rj Koehler
- Año de publicación
- 2026
- Estado
- new
- Encuadernación
- Paperback
- Idioma
- inglés
- ISBN 13
- 9798994500552
What if the students we struggle with the most… are the ones we understand the least?
Every school has them.
The students who are labeled difficult.
Disrespectful.
Unmotivated.
The ones whose names are mentioned before they even walk through the door.
But what if behavior isn’t the problem?
What if behavior is communication?
What if the actions that frustrate us most are actually signs of unmet needs, past experiences, trauma, or challenges we cannot see?
In The Kids We Misunderstand: How Connection Changes Behavior, Builds Trust, and Transforms Schools, educational leader RJ Koehler shares powerful real-life stories and practical strategies from years of working with students impacted by trauma, poverty, violence, instability, and loss.
From students working overnight to help support their families…
To students carrying invisible emotional wounds…
To students whose choices reflect struggles far beyond the classroom…
This book reveals what educators often don't see and explores what becomes possible when we choose connection over control.
This is not a book about lowering expectations.
It is not about excusing behavior.
It is about understanding the story behind the behavior so educators can respond with empathy, accountability, and purpose.
Inside, educators, school leaders, counselors, and student support professionals will discover how to:
- Understand student behavior through a trauma-informed lens
- Build authentic relationships with students who feel disconnected or misunderstood
- Create classrooms where students feel safe, valued, and ready to learn
- Use restorative practices and relationship-based strategies to address challenging behaviors
- Strengthen student engagement, belonging, and trust
- Transform school culture through connection-driven leadership
Through honest storytelling and practical guidance, RJ Koehler challenges educators to rethink discipline, classroom management, and the way we define student success.
Because the truth is:
These are not bad kids.
They are kids carrying things many of us were never asked to carry.
And when we take the time to truly see them, we do more than change behavior.
We change lives.
Perfect for teachers, principals, administrators, counselors, special education professionals, education students, and anyone committed to creating trauma-informed schools where every student has the opportunity to grow.
Continue exploring RJ Koehler’s work through her memoirs:
What He Didn’t Break: A Memoir of Narcissistic Abuse, Survival, and Reclaiming Your Life
When Love Is Not Enough: A Memoir of Parenting, Trauma, and Survival
Choosing Life After Loss: A Memoir of Survival, Suicide Loss, and Learning to Live Again
The Weight of Silence: A Memoir of Childhood Trauma, Survival, and Reclaiming Your Voice
Across her professional and personal writing, RJ Koehler explores one powerful truth:
Connection changes everything.
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