Folsom, California, Spring 1998

"You can smile any time now!"

The woman from personnel coaxed me into a pleasant expression as she took the photograph for my ID card at the Intel offices. It wasn't too hard as it was my first day and I was filled with optimism by the challenges that lay ahead. A quick flash and click later and I was up from the plastic-mold chair and off to the next part of orientation process.

About twenty of us were escorted down a long corridor illuminated by institutional lighting and lined with photographs of the rolling hills and open waters of the San Francisco area just to the west from which a few hearty employees commuted. Some knew each other from graduate school or previous employers in the volatile hi-tech businesses of Silicon Valley where teams coalesced, created great things, and after a few months went on to new outfits. Others recognized names on the still warm security badges by reputation or from articles in trade newsletters. A few years older than most of my new colleagues, I didn't find the orientation process as exciting as most others did, but designing new chips always attracted me and I knew the excitement of others would lead to hard work and creativity.

I jotted down a few notes as the spokesperson ran down corporate guidelines and handed out a slew of pamphlets. Mostly, however, I was enjoying the energy of the young people around me. I confess, I felt like I too was fresh out of college and exploring the world, at least for a few moments here and there.

My assignment was the R&D group and that was ideal for it meant working with remarkable new technologies and creating new ones. Pushing the envelope, as they say. In other sections, work entailed implementing accepted technologies, putting them into a family of chips. At R&D, I'd be looking for new manufacturing processes using nanotechnology. That, my friends, is creating microscopic machines to build microscopic circuits. At times, it feels like you're part of a science-fiction work instead of a business operation.

After the orientation lecture we enjoyed a light buffet of pineapple, sushi, and herbal tea. Yes, this was Northern California alright. Chatting, conviviating, and greeting old friends came with the food naturally enough. A man tapped me on the shoulder. "Danny! Danny Rittman! Welcome aboard. Let me show you to your office. I think we have one with a splendid view of the hills for you. We're still expanding the facilities here, so you'll be sharing an office for now."

"That'll be fine," I replied amicably. "I'm used to a cooperative environment and it's good to have a real person to chat with amid all the abstraction. Besides, we can help each other by increasing productivity and decrease the learning curve."

"Fair points, Danny." The manager clearly liked my outlook and flexibility.

We reached the open doorway inside of which an older man was looking intently into a large CRT monitor (this was the nineties, remember) where a circuit design was laid out for his scrutiny for flaws that could potential problems.

"Knock, knock!"

A short, rotund man in his late sixties with a balding pate slowly raised a hand to acknowledge our presence but continued with his work, occasionally muttering to himself and running a finger along a section of the circuit layout. Suddenly, he spun his chair to face us, slowly stood, and gestured for us to come in.

"Welcome! Welcome! You, young man, must be Danny Rittman. Your reputation precedes you—but I'm sure it doesn't exceed you."

Funny guy.

"Yes, Adrian, this is Danny. He will be with our team on the Tejas Project. Oh, and Danny, this is Adrian Nowak. He's been working in this field since ... oh since computers were the size of those Sub Z refrigerators in everybody's kitchens out here. He's been a helpful consultant here at Folsom for the past year or so."

Adrian smiled with the compliment but it quickly receded. "Actually my experience only dates back to when the first 286 processor was taping out many years ago. My first design experience was here at Intel. Pleased to meet you, Danny." Adrian shook my hand firmly though with discernible kindness. I looked into his eyes and saw kindness there too, though a flash of tragedy seemed to appear before disappearing in an instant.

"The pleasure is all mine," I replied to him with simple pleasantness. I saw the kindness again and thought that I'd been mistaken about the hint of tragedy. I was new in the place and early impressions come and go, forgotten in a week or two. Usually.

"Adrian, can you please show Danny how to access the design software and the layouts? I'll show him the kitchen and other amenities. I'm afraid there aren't as many of those as we'd like, but with the new building coming online, we'll be up to industry standards. I see we've already cleared out the desk for him."

"I shall be delighted to do all those things and more. Come with me, young man. We'll start with the most important place—the kitchen. That's where the great breakthroughs happen anyway. Rumor has it that Hewlett ran into Packard during a coffee break. And that chance meeting turned out rather well, didn't it."

"Well then, here's to the founding of Nowak-Rittman!" I said, enjoying my wit almost as much as the others did.

"Nowak-Rittman, eh," the manager said warily. "Gentlemen, I hope you read those nondisclosure and intellectual property clauses in your contracts very carefully! All patents and any idea developed here belong to the Intel Corporation."

He was kidding, of course, but making a point as well.

The first day was going well. I liked Adrian. He was full of life and his eyes held the prospect of many life experiences I could learn from.

Over the next few weeks, Adrian and I got along swimmingly. He was much my senior so there was a certain amount of father-son affection but there was also that between an esteemed mentor and a grateful student. He taught me emerging techniques in integrated circuit layout design. He pointed out some faults with established methods and occasionally offered ideas how to fix them. It didn't matter if the issues were simple or complex; he had a sixth sense for finding innovations—especially in regard to a circuit's geometrical aspects. His intuition was almost always more useful than our colleagues' studied responses. His comments weren't just grumpy complaints; they conveyed profound understanding of a design's intricacies and truly thoughtful notions as to improving them. He was both insightful and concise. With each thought there was wit and soul. We thought one day we'd collaborate on bettering methods for the next project.

He laughed aloud at spontaneous wit, his or mine. He did the same when we came across an error, his or mine. In those first few weeks, I freely confess that the mistakes were mostly mine. But I was learning. Learning from Adrian. Father-son, mentor-student—and good friends. I felt fortunate to share an office with him.

The hi-tech world is well known as a place for young people. I say this as someone who looks around the office now in 2013 and sees that most coworkers are far younger than I am. Okay, I'll say it. I'm now old enough to be their father. Many of them anyway. Back then Adrian was old enough to be my father and I wondered why he hadn't put in for retirement. I don't think it was a money matter. I truly think he still loved to be out doing things and didn't want to sit around the house where, as he put it, he'd "just get into trouble."

Being from Israel, I'm not very adept at identifying the accents of Americans. Some will say a coworker's accent reveals he's from the Midwest or another's indicates she hails from Boh-ston. Go figure. In time, however, I asked Adrian about his accent and he replied more fully than I expected. He grew up in Poland and came to New York City long ago where he worked his way through night school at CCNY and earned a degree in electrical engineering. He met his wife-to-be in New York and they raised a son whom they cherished above everything else in life and who became "a good man."

"So where are you from, Danny? I think I detect a European accent," Adrian asked one day. "Germany maybe? Switzerland?" It was a working chat. Neither one of us took our eyes off our screens.

"Actually I'm from the country of Israel," I answered.

"Oh ... Israel." Adrian stopped his work and turned to me with interest. "Friends and relatives talk so much of their homeland there in Israel, though for one reason or another I've not been for a visit. Were you born there?"

"Yes, in a city called Haifa. It's on the Mediterranean, about a hundred kilometers north of Tel Aviv." I pulled myself away from my screen and turned towards him. An unofficial break had begun.

"You know, Danny, I've known many people who've visited Israel but this is the first time that I've met someone who was from there. This is fascinating," he said nodding, "Truly fascinating."

That aspect of my life was nothing extraordinary to me or to people I knew back in Haifa or even in grad school in New Haven, but for Adrian the notion had an exotic quality. There was a pause—no, more of a hesitation. He was weighing whether to ask something, calculating whether it was appropriate. I opened my hand gently, signaling almost unconsciously that I was amenable to inquiries. There was more than hesitation now. I sensed he was now wondering whether his questions would lead to something hidden—hidden in him, something kept in the back of his mind or soul.

"Have you ... Danny, have you ever met someone who went through the Holocaust?" His voice was quieter, his eyes soulful, almost aggrieved.

"Yes, I have. As a matter of fact, my father is a survivor." I nodded in acknowledgment. "The Holocaust is a very personal subject to me, even more so than for most Israelis, I would think."

I saw new light in his eyes. He was intrigued. "Astounding ... your father went through that ordeal. Astounding."

"Yes, he spent some time in a few places whose names you might know. Dachau in Germany and then a few camps in Poland—Treblinka and Auschwitz." His eyes and a slight twitch indicated he knew the names. He knew them not from a book or a lecture or a documentary. He had known someone who had been to such places. Or perhaps he had an even more personal connection.

"My father," I continued, "was taken from his home in Hungary as a young man, barely in his teens, into the camp system. There he was judged fit for work teams which was the only way to avoid being put to death—gassed. Later, he was put in a boxcar and sent to Auschwitz where it was only a matter of time until he was sent to a gas chamber. Fortunately, the Russian army liberated the camp—in early 1945, I think it was."

"Yes, January of 1945. That is fascinating." Adrian trembled slightly and his voice quavered. "That is an absolutely remarkable story...."

"Oh, there are many more even more remarkable accounts," I replied as a door was opening to the grim narratives my father would occasionally and reluctantly and very briefly recount. I waved my hand as though to suggest their extensiveness and enormity. "He could tell us very hard stories, events that he experienced in the camps and outside of them, but he rarely mentions what he calls 'those days'."

Adrian suddenly covered his face with his hands and shuddered. A soft gasp escaped his lips. Had I offended him? Had I dredged up something? "Are you alright, Adrian? Adrian, have I said something wrong?" He was elsewhere, in another place—a painful one whose location I could suspect. I wanted to clasp his shoulder but I held back and let the moment unfold.

"Oh yes. I'll be fine ... I'll be fine. I apologize for that outburst of emotion. It's most unusual for me, I assure you." As he lowered his hands I could see tears welling in his eyes and a trickle coming from one of them. My cheerful coworker, quick of wit and mirth, was gone, replaced by a stricken, haunted man overwhelmed by dark memories.

He pulled a cotton handkerchief from the inside pocket of his sport coat and blew his nose into it loudly. Had the moment not been so puzzling and somber, I'd have chuckled. So would he, I'm quite sure.

Adrian looked out the window to the enclosed grassy area of the building. "Danny, my friend, tomorrow I'll tell you a story." No longer trembling, his voice no longer quavering, he repeated his promise. "I too experienced the Holocaust but in a different way from most." He turned to me, our eyes looking intently into each other's in a most sincere way. "Tomorrow, I'll tell you my story...."

A thousand dark images raced through my mind from books and Yad Vashem, the Holocaust museum in Jerusalem. I wanted to hear his account then and there but I respected his judgment. It would take time to put together his words and to brace himself. "Of course, Adrian. I look forward to hearing your story—and to learning from you."

Adrian returned to his screen and finished his work. We didn't speak again that day. We nodded to each other as we left the office and headed down the corridor toward the exit. Young people were eager to meet up with friends at nearby watering holes and others headed home to their families.

I arose early the next morning, brewed my coffee, quartered a honey dew, and thought about what lay ahead. Adrian, I figured, was undoubtedly preparing himself too. I felt for him and respected him all the more for feeling the need to tell me. In fact, I felt honored. I still do.

I drove into the Intel lot and parked in the place allotted to me. The guard and I nodded as he looked at my badge and I walked down the corridor to the office. The door was open, the light on. Adrian had arrived even earlier than had I. That was hardly ever the case.

He looked at me as I entered, his eyes illuminated by thought and perhaps even by obsession. Perspiration beaded atop his balding pate, though the morning was cool and the air conditioning was on a low fan speed. I got the impression that he'd been there for quite some time and that he was eager to tell me his story.

I wanted to lighten things before he began. I wondered if it might make him think me glib rather than sensitive to his uneasiness, but I judged he'd think the latter. "An early riser this fine day, eh Adrian. Or perhaps a little argument with the wife? Did someone kick you out of bed this morning?"

No luck. Not even a polite smile. I sensed no ill will though.

"Danny, I have a question for you," he said, his eyes never looking toward me. "Do you know what a Tefillin is?"

I hadn't expected that question at all. "Yes, of course I do, Adrian," I replied haltingly. "It's a sacred object—two small black boxes, or phylacteries—used in prayer by those of the Jewish faith. Each box contains small parchment scrolls upon which verses from the Torah are written."

I'd gone through six weeks of instruction prior to my Bar Mitzvah on how to pray with Tefillin. Every Jewish boy goes through this rite of manhood. Well, maybe now with all the secularization in life not every boy does, but I think most do. The more observant of them pray with them everyday.

I sensed Adrian wanted to hear me say more.

"Though I am not Orthodox, I nonetheless uphold the tradition of praying over my phylacteries—every morning. The Tefillin has leather strips that secure the boxes with the holy scriptures to the arm and head. The Torah instructs that they are to be worn to remind us that God brought the children of Israel out of Egypt. I remember that the Rabbi I studied under warned me that if the boxes were to fall onto the floor, I'd have to fast a whole day. So, I treat them with great respect."

Adrian noted the reverence in my explanation and nodded.

"Tefillin...." he murmured.

"How do you know of these matters, Adrian? Are you Jewish?" I sensed he knew a great deal about Tefillin and that it bore upon his story.

"Yes, I know about Tefillin. No, I am not Jewish," Adrian leaned back in his chair. His face lost the focus of just a moment ago. Sadness and pain were in its place. "Do you want to hear a story about Tefillin?" he asked gently. "Do you want to hear my story? I want you to be sure."

I became silent. It was as though he was offering a last chance out of an unpleasant ordeal. I found my words a moment later. "Yes, of course, Adrian. I very much want to hear your story."

He looked out into the court area for a few moments but soon turned his attention back to our office. I could see moisture in his eyes. He moved about to sit more comfortably, took a measured sip from his tea with a lemon wedge floating on top, and started to tell me his story. I think he'd wanted to tell these events to someone for many years. They'd been an immense burden on his soul and now he'd found someone to ease it, someone who'd understand his story.

I was there.