Chasing Love That Hurts (Paperback)
Idioma: inglés
Editorial: Independently Published, 2026
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Paperback. Why Can't I Stop Thinking About Them?You know this attachment is hurting you.And yet, you can't stop thinking about them.You replay conversations, or imagine the conversations you wish you could have. You search for meaning in the smallest interactions. You hold on to moments of attention, possibilities, and imagined futures, hoping that maybe one day something will change.You've promised yourself you'll let go. But somehow, they still occupy your thoughts, your emotions, and far more of your inner world than you want them to.If this feels familiar, you may not simply be experiencing heartbreak.You may be experiencing limerence, an intense emotional fixation that can leave you caught in obsessive thoughts, longing, anxiety, fantasy, and an overwhelming desire to be chosen or to have your feelings returned.But limerence can sometimes be connected to something deeper.Attachment wounds, childhood emotional neglect, unmet emotional needs, and relationship patterns can all influence the way we seek connection and the people we struggle to let go of. Sometimes, the very inconsistency that hurts you can also make it harder to walk away.Chasing Love That Hurts is a comprehensive, trauma-informed self-help guide designed to help you understand not only what limerence is, but why you may be experiencing it and how to begin breaking free.Drawing on attachment theory, neuroscience, trauma-informed psychology, nervous system regulation, and practical healing strategies, Lineo Ratia explores the deeper patterns behind obsessive attachment and explains them in a way that is easy to understand and apply to your own life.Inside this book, you'll discover: - Why limerence can feel so powerful and difficult to control- How childhood emotional neglect, attachment wounds, and unmet emotional needs can shape the way you love- Why inconsistency, mixed signals, and small moments of attention can make someone even harder to let go of- How dopamine, oxytocin, cortisol, and nervous system activation can contribute to cycles of attachment, craving, anxiety, and relief- Why you may become attached to someone's potential, or even to the person you imagine them to be- How to interrupt obsessive thoughts and begin letting go- How to regulate your emotions when the urge to reach out, check their social media, or seek reassurance feels overwhelming- How to rebuild your self-worth without depending on someone else's attention or validation- How to stop abandoning yourself in relationships, set healthier boundaries, and trust yourself again- How to recognize healthier love and build more secure relationships without losing yourself- Practical exercises, journaling prompts, self-reflection questions, and healing strategies to help you put what you learn into practiceThis isn't simply a book about getting over someone.It's about understanding why you lost yourself in the first place.It's about healing the wounds beneath the longing.It's about learning that love doesn't have to leave you constantly anxious, confused, waiting, or questioning your worth.Love can feel safe.Mutual.Peaceful.Secure.Because healing isn't about finding someone who finally chooses you.It's about finally choosing yourself. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.…
N° de ref. del artículo 9798192110638
- Título
- Chasing Love That Hurts (Paperback)
- Autor
- Lineo Ratia
- Editorial
- Independently Published
- Año de publicación
- 2026
- Estado
- new
- Encuadernación
- Paperback
- Idioma
- inglés
- ISBN 13
- 9798192110638
Why Can't I Stop Thinking About Them?
You know this attachment is hurting you.
And yet, you can't stop thinking about them.
You replay conversations, or imagine the conversations you wish you could have. You search for meaning in the smallest interactions. You hold on to moments of attention, possibilities, and imagined futures, hoping that maybe one day something will change.
You've promised yourself you'll let go. But somehow, they still occupy your thoughts, your emotions, and far more of your inner world than you want them to.
If this feels familiar, you may not simply be experiencing heartbreak.
You may be experiencing limerence, an intense emotional fixation that can leave you caught in obsessive thoughts, longing, anxiety, fantasy, and an overwhelming desire to be chosen or to have your feelings returned.
But limerence can sometimes be connected to something deeper.
Attachment wounds, childhood emotional neglect, unmet emotional needs, and relationship patterns can all influence the way we seek connection and the people we struggle to let go of. Sometimes, the very inconsistency that hurts you can also make it harder to walk away.
Chasing Love That Hurts is a comprehensive, trauma-informed self-help guide designed to help you understand not only what limerence is, but why you may be experiencing it and how to begin breaking free.
Drawing on attachment theory, neuroscience, trauma-informed psychology, nervous system regulation, and practical healing strategies, Lineo Ratia explores the deeper patterns behind obsessive attachment and explains them in a way that is easy to understand and apply to your own life.
Inside this book, you'll discover:
• Why limerence can feel so powerful and difficult to control
• How childhood emotional neglect, attachment wounds, and unmet emotional needs can shape the way you love
• Why inconsistency, mixed signals, and small moments of attention can make someone even harder to let go of
• How dopamine, oxytocin, cortisol, and nervous system activation can contribute to cycles of attachment, craving, anxiety, and relief
• Why you may become attached to someone's potential, or even to the person you imagine them to be
• How to interrupt obsessive thoughts and begin letting go
• How to regulate your emotions when the urge to reach out, check their social media, or seek reassurance feels overwhelming
• How to rebuild your self-worth without depending on someone else's attention or validation
• How to stop abandoning yourself in relationships, set healthier boundaries, and trust yourself again
• How to recognize healthier love and build more secure relationships without losing yourself
• Practical exercises, journaling prompts, self-reflection questions, and healing strategies to help you put what you learn into practice
This isn't simply a book about getting over someone.
It's about understanding why you lost yourself in the first place.
It's about healing the wounds beneath the longing.
It's about learning that love doesn't have to leave you constantly anxious, confused, waiting, or questioning your worth.
Love can feel safe.
Mutual.
Peaceful.
Secure.
Because healing isn't about finding someone who finally chooses you.
It's about finally choosing yourself.
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