THE COURAGE TO BE KNOWN: Integrating the Shadow of Deception, Persona, and the Protective Lie So You Can Actually Be Known - Tapa blanda

THE COURAGE TO BE KNOWN : Integrating the Shadow of Deception, Persona, and the Protective Lie So You Can Actually Be Known

Taschenbuch. Condición: Neu. Neuware - What if the lie is not the beginning of the problem-but the final move in a protective sequence The Courage to Be Known explores what happens when fear, shame, persona, and self-protection become more powerful than the willingness to be fully seen. A lie may provide immediate relief, but its delayed costs can include suspicion, emotional distance, repeated checking, broken agreements, and the painful transformation of a relationship into an investigation.Lauren Cyran and Troy Lindeen examine direct lies, omissions, half-truths, strategic vagueness, minimization, exaggeration, promise inflation, defensiveness, and staggered disclosure. Through practical teaching and carefully attributed experiences from their own relationship, they show how dishonesty affects both the person hiding and the person trying to understand what is real.This book is built around one central principle: A lie is a behavior, not an entire identity. Understanding what dishonesty protects does not excuse it. It reveals where meaningful change can begin.Inside, readers will learn how to: - Recognize the fear or consequence beneath a protective lie- Interrupt dishonesty before discovery forces the truth- Correct inaccurate statements without adding another defense- Distinguish shame from genuine accountability- Understand why broken trust creates checking and hypervigilance- Set boundaries without turning transparency into permanent surveillance- Use responsible timeouts without abandoning the conversation- Measure repair through consistent, observable behavior- Integrate the hidden parts of the self without using psychology as an excuse- Decide whether trust is being rebuilt-or merely promisedThe Expanded Couples Edition includes reflection questions, practical repair protocols, conversation tools, worksheets, and a seven-day starting practice. The authors' real experiences are presented with clear distinctions between documented records, first-person accounts, recollections, interpretations, and what remains unknown.The Courage to Be Known is for anyone who has hidden the truth to protect themselves, anyone who has been hurt by repeated dishonesty, and couples trying to replace fear, investigation, and defensive conflict with accuracy, accountability, and repair.For readers who want structured daily practice, 30-Day and 90-Day Guided Companion Journals are available separately. Nº de ref. del artículo: 9798174849730

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