Never Leave Your Dead: A True Story of War Trauma, Murder, and Madness - Tapa blanda

It is a privilege to meet Diane Cameron through this book. She has made her own hero s journey and brought us back this boon. No sentimentality here!"Jonathan Shay, MD, PhD, author of "Achilles in Vietnam" and "Odysseus in America"
This book tells the story of a stepdaughter s effort to understand what caused her stepfather to kill his first wife and then mother-in-law. We often think that people who kill others are invariably psychopathic and evil. But as Cameron shows, this is not always the case. If you have ever wondered about and tried to understand what motivates victims of psychological trauma to commit acts of violence, this book is for you. Cameron takes you with her on her journey of discovery, finding records and talking to experts to put the pieces of the puzzle of her stepfather together. The book is quite interesting and easy to read. It helps the reader to understand that sometimes perpetrators of violence are victims of, and witnesses to, the most horrendous indecency human beings can inflict on one another. I highly recommend this work as an effort toward a greater understanding of individuals suffering from PTSD who might commit acts of violence. Victor Ashear, PhD, author of "Self-Acceptance: The Key to Recovery from Mental Illness"
Diane Cameron s Never Leave Your Dead, unfolding like a good psychological mystery, is at once heartfelt and unillusioned. It asks the hard questions and considers the harrowing evidence about violence and its impacts on the soul, but then looks to move past judgment. Here are images and perspectives that will not be forgotten, however much the reader hopes they might. To understand the power of forgiveness we need to understand what things need to be forgiven. Cameron instructs us in both. Sven Birkerts, author of "The Gutenberg Elegies" and "The Art of the Memoir"
Wars never end for their survivors. Despite new diagnostic language and a culture at times sympathetic, military trauma all too often devastates the lives of our veterans and those who love them long after armistice. With this poignant, timely, and unforgettable memoir of her own effort to comprehend, Diane Cameron issues a powerful reminder that mental trauma is an intricate, three-dimensional problemone that resists easy judgments and defies simple answers. Grounded in history, informed by psychiatry, and written with a rare blend of compassion and moral urgency, this is a powerful meditation on love, war, and our humanity. As our young men and women continue to return from Iraq and Afghanistan, may their familiesand our national policy makersread this important book and ponder its many valuable insights. Dr. Brian Matthew Jordan, author of "Marching Home: Union Veterans and Their Unending Civil War"
Diane Cameron is a teacher and historian who puts one Marine s life into the context of historical eventsmany which we have forgotten. She frames that man's trauma and that of many of the men we send to war. Part memoir, part history lesson, and part psychological mystery, Diane s book educates all of us about the complexity of a single life, and she helps us to understand and honor our warriors, past and present. As a clinician who worked with traumatized veterans at the VA for many years, I am moved by the compassion in Diane s understanding of what it means to be a Marine, and how the trauma of war can mold one s life forever. This is a compelling story and a well-researched history lesson that remains relevant today. Susan Griffiths, RN, MS, Clinical Nurse Specialist in Psychiatric Nursing
"Diane Cameron s book is simply a tour-de-forcewith the page-turning power of a world-class thriller. It is the story of one family member s attempt to create a coherent narrative out of the mind-numbing shards of war trauma. Cameron is a fierce detectivedeeply well-informedand every page of her determined inquiry moves us closer to a nuanced understanding of the effects of trauma on us all. The astonished reader of this book accompanies Cameron on her journey through a fog of cultural and clinical denial and superstitionand finally arrives with her at some profound and healing truths. I simply could not put this book down."Stephen Cope, Senior Scholar-in-Residence at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health and best-selling author of "The Great Work of Your Life" and "Yoga and the Quest for the True Self"
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Leatherneck Magazine review: "Cameron's book is both a swan song to her misunderstood Marine stepfather and a vivid testimonial on the varying and erratic symptoms of PTSD. She includes a short listing of the symptoms of PTSD and a suggested list of resources for veterans and their families in the hope of helping others. This enthralling little book reads like a well-conceived detective novel. Diane Cameron has produced an interesting and thought-provoking tale of war trauma, murder and madness but the unimaginable and tragic tale of Donald Watkins is told with the greatest care and heartfelt compassion."--Robert B. Loring

PsychCentral Magazine review: "Full of the pain of war and horror of our history with mental illness, Never Leave Your Dead is by no means an easy read. And yet Cameron's approach fully embraces the sentiment of the title, a central ethos of the Marine Corps. She could have easily left Watkins' story untold, justified by the murder of two innocent women and her own complicated relationship to him. Instead, she asks us to consider Watkins' life and the implications of his experiences in the military and afterward. She encourages us to meditate on the effects of war and how we care for -- or more often don't -- those who come home after witnessing real horrors. And, using her own struggles, she draws meaningful connections between the pain of trauma and the pain of veterans' trauma, not creating an unreachable other, but instead unifying them and us in our common humanity."--Julie Pratt

"It is a privilege to meet Diane Cameron through this book. She has made her own hero's journey and brought us back this boon. No sentimentality here!"--Jonathan Shay, MD, PhD, author of Achilles in Vietnam and Odysseus in America

"Diane Cameron's Never Leave Your Dead, unfolding like a good psychological mystery, is at once heartfelt and unillusioned. It asks the hard questions and considers the harrowing evidence about violence and its impacts on the soul, but then looks to move past judgment. Here are images and perspectives that will not be forgotten, however much the reader hopes they might. To understand the power of forgiveness we need to understand what things need to be forgiven. Cameron instructs us in both."--Sven Birkerts, author of The Gutenberg Elegies and The Art of the Memoir

"Wars never end for their survivors. Despite new diagnostic language and a culture at times sympathetic, military trauma all too often devastates the lives of our veterans and those who love them long after armistice. With this poignant, timely, and unforgettable memoir of her own effort to comprehend, Diane Cameron issues a powerful reminder that mental trauma is an intricate, three-dimensional problem--one that resists easy judgments and defies simple answers. Grounded in history, informed by psychiatry, and written with a rare blend of compassion and moral urgency, this is a powerful meditation on love, war, and our humanity. As our young men and women continue to return from Iraq and Afghanistan, may their families--and our national policy makers--read this important book and ponder its many valuable insights."--Dr. Brian Matthew Jordan, author of Marching Home: Union Veterans and Their Unending Civil War

"Diane Cameron is a teacher and historian who puts one Marine's life into the context of historical events--many which we have forgotten. She frames that man's trauma and that of many of the men we send to war. Part memoir, part history lesson, and part psychological mystery, Diane's book educates all of us about the complexity of a single life, and she helps us to understand and honor our warriors, past and present. As a clinician who worked with traumatized veterans at the VA for many years, I am moved by the compassion in Diane's understanding of what it means to be a Marine, and how the trauma of war can mold one's life forever. This is a compelling story and a well-researched history lesson that remains relevant today."--Susan Griffiths, RN, MS, Clinical Nurse Specialist in Psychiatric Nursing

"Diane Cameron's book is simply a tour-de-force--with the page-turning power of a world-class thriller. It is the story of one family member's attempt to create a coherent narrative out of the mind-numbing shards of war trauma. Cameron is a fierce detective--deeply well-informed--and every page of her determined inquiry moves us closer to a nuanced understanding of the effects of trauma on us all. The astonished reader of this book accompanies Cameron on her journey through a fog of cultural and clinical denial and superstition--and finally arrives with her at some profound and healing truths. I simply could not put this book down."--Stephen Cope, Senior Scholar-in-Residence at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health and best-selling author of The Great Work of Your Life and Yoga and the Quest for the True Self
Leatherneck Magazine review: "Cameron's book is both a swan song to her misunderstood Marine stepfather and a vivid testimonial on the varying and erratic symptoms of PTSD. She includes a short listing of the symptoms of PTSD and a suggested list of resources for veterans and their families in the hope of helping others. This enthralling little book reads like a well-conceived detective novel. Diane Cameron has produced an interesting and thought-provoking tale of war trauma, murder and madness but the unimaginable and tragic tale of Donald Watkins is told with the greatest care and heartfelt compassion."--Robert B. Loring

PsychCentral Magazine review: "Full of the pain of war and horror of our history with mental illness, Never Leave Your Dead is by no means an easy read. And yet Cameron's approach fully embraces the sentiment of the title, a central ethos of the Marine Corps. She could have easily left Watkins' story untold, justified by the murder of two innocent women and her own complicated relationship to him. Instead, she asks us to consider Watkins' life and the implications of his experiences in the military and afterward. She encourages us to meditate on the effects of war and how we care for -- or more often don't -- those who come home after witnessing real horrors. And, using her own struggles, she draws meaningful connections between the pain of trauma and the pain of veterans' trauma, not creating an unreachable other, but instead unifying them and us in our common humanity."--Julie Pratt

"It is a privilege to meet Diane Cameron through this book. She has made her own hero's journey and brought us back this boon. No sentimentality here!"--Jonathan Shay, MD, PhD, author of Achilles in Vietnam and Odysseus in America

"Diane Cameron's Never Leave Your Dead, unfolding like a good psychological mystery, is at once heartfelt and unillusioned. It asks the hard questions and considers the harrowing evidence about violence and its impacts on the soul, but then looks to move past judgment. Here are images and perspectives that will not be forgotten, however much the reader hopes they might. To understand the power of forgiveness we need to understand what things need to be forgiven. Cameron instructs us in both."--Sven Birkerts, author of The Gutenberg Elegies and The Art of the Memoir

"Wars never end for their survivors. Despite new diagnostic language and a culture at times sympathetic, military trauma all too often devastates the lives of our veterans and those who love them long after armistice. With this poignant, timely, and unforgettable memoir of her own effort to comprehend, Diane Cameron issues a powerful reminder that mental trauma is an intricate, three-dimensional problem--one that resists easy judgments and defies simple answers. Grounded in history, informed by psychiatry, and written with a rare blend of compassion and moral urgency, this is a powerful meditation on love, war, and our humanity. As our young men and women continue to return from Iraq and Afghanistan, may their families--and our national policy makers--read this important book and ponder its many valuable insights."--Dr. Brian Matthew Jordan, author of Marching Home: Union Veterans and Their Unending Civil War

"Diane Cameron is a teacher and historian who puts one Marine's life into the context of historical events--many which we have forgotten. She frames that man's trauma and that of many of the men we send to war. Part memoir, part history lesson, and part psychological mystery, Diane's book educates all of us about the complexity of a single life, and she helps us to understand and honor our warriors, past and present. As a clinician who worked with traumatized veterans at the VA for many years, I am moved by the compassion in Diane's understanding of what it means to be a Marine, and how the trauma of war can mold one's life forever. This is a compelling story and a well-researched history lesson that remains relevant today."--Susan Griffiths, RN, MS, Clinical Nurse Specialist in Psychiatric Nursing

"Diane Cameron's book is simply a tour-de-force--with the page-turning power of a world-class thriller. It is the story of one family member's attempt to create a coherent narrative out of the mind-numbing shards of war trauma. Cameron is a fierce detective--deeply well-informed--and every page of her determined inquiry moves us closer to a nuanced understanding of the effects of trauma on us all. The astonished reader of this book accompanies Cameron on her journey through a fog of cultural and clinical denial and superstition--and finally arrives with her at some profound and healing truths. I simply could not put this book down."--Stephen Cope, Senior Scholar-in-Residence at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health and best-selling author of The Great Work of Your Life and Yoga and the Quest for the True Self