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Los Angeles Times "A treasure... Coontz's ample evidence exposes the falseness, sentimentality and self-righteousness of most public statements about the family." New York Times Book Review "Often brilliant and invariably provocative." Minneapolis Star Tribune "[The Way We Never Were is] one of the few books I've carried with me through years and moves -- because it's a welcome and hopeful reminder that families always have faced, and overcome, transitions and challenges. In the revised book, Coontz offers an equally honest and upbeat review of the way things really are, despite dire predictions of a culture in crisis." Entertainment Weekly "Coontz reminds us that the 'good old days' were never quite that in her excellent history of the American family." The Oklahoman "David West is getting close to finishing another book. That's not some sort of metaphor. The NBA veteran is a voracious reader, almost always carrying his latest book on a team plane or his electronic tablet into the locker room. For the past few weeks, he's been immersed in a book by social historian Stephanie Coontz. It's called The Way We Never Were: American Families and the Nostalgia Trap. The book is about shattering myths. So is David West." Jonathan Yardley, Washington Post Book World "[Coontz] approaches the subject of what we now insist up on calling 'family values' with what is, in the current atmosphere, a refreshing lack of partisan cant." The National Memo "Stephanie Coontz's 1992 book was a work of first-rate history, and it undermined a slew of common misperceptions of family life in America, but it was also a plea to take off the rose-colored glasses that cause us to get so many political issues wrong. Fittingly, Coontz's publisher, Basic Books, has released a revised edition just as the moralizing we've come to expect from presidential campaigns kicks into overdrive." The Society Pages "The latest edition of Stephanie Coontz's The Way We Never Were: American Families and the Nostalgia Trap is an essential read for policymakers... Coontz's book makes for an absorbing, sometimes shocking, often wryly funny read. Both comprehensive and comprehensible, it's a veritable one-stop shop for reliable research on how public policy and culture affect families." Linda Burton, Dean of Social Sciences and James B. Duke Professor of Sociology, Duke University "There is no better commentary on the status and processes of American families than The Way We Never Were. Stephanie Coontz writes about the realities of family life in an uncompromising way that integrates evidence-based research with the souls and everyday lives of kin within and across generations and across time and space. In my family sociology courses a spontaneous awakening occurs for students who read this book for the first time. They never look at families the same way, which is a game changer as they consider family life in their futures and question the meaning of families in their present lives. Stephanie Coontz has given the field a true gift that guides us in a journey of understanding the evolution of family life in real time and under real circumstances. Illuminating, provocative, and a must read for all!" Paula England, 2015-15 President, American Sociological Association "Stephanie Coontz has her finger on the pulse of contemporary families like no one else in America. In this book, she busts numerous myths about families in the past and clearly explains what is going on in today's families." William H. Chafe, Alice Mary Baldwin Professor of History, Duke University, the former president, Organization of American Historians "More than twenty years ago, in The Way We Never Were, Stephanie Coontz cut through all the bizarre stereotypes we carry with us about marriage and the family in America. Now, in a brilliant revision, she jolts us once again by bringing us up to date on when people marry, how income inequality affects family life, and why we have made so much progress on issues of gay marriage, and so little on issues of poverty and women's reproductive rights. A terrific read with amazing new information!" Newsday "Coontz presents fascinating facts and figures that explode the cherished myths about self-sufficient, happy, moral families." The Nation "Historically rich, and loaded with anecdotal evidence, The Way We Never Were effectively demolishes the normal, traditional nuclear family as neither normal nor traditional, and not even nuclear." Publishers Weekly "A wonderfully perceptive, myth-debunking report... An important contribution to the current debate on family values." Kirkus "Clear, incisive, and distinguished by Coontz's personal conviction and by its vast range of cogent examples, including capsule histories of women in the labor force and of black families. Fascinating, persuasive, politically relevant." Frank Furstenberg, Zellerbach Family Professor of Sociology, Emeritus, University of Pennsylvania "This small book has had an outsized influence on the way social scientists think about the recent history of the American family. It remains the starting point for anyone who hopes to understand how contemporary family life came about and where we may be headed in the future." Romper "If you've ever questioned whether the 'Good Old Days' were really all that good, The Way We Never Were is worth a read. [Coontz] puts 'traditional family values' in a historical context and examines whether or not the idea was realistic. It will make you glad we don't have to vacuum in heels anymore." Spiked Review of Books (UK) "The Way We Never Were was such a great achievement and an important step forward. It provided a much-needed corrective to the romanticised view of the 1950s family, and began to defuse some of the more hysterical and fatalistic discussions about teen pregnancy and the underclass...A new epilogue takes a stab at addressing some of today's mistaken assumptions about the family. It all makes for a work that continues to provide plenty of food for thought." Ellen Galinsky, President, Families and Work Institute "Stephanie Coontz is a national treasure. Her work, always solidly grounded in the best and most comprehensive research, is consistently groundbreaking. She changes the way we understand the past, present, and the future. What's more, her new paradigms change the way we live and work!"

Leave It to Beaver was not a documentary, a man's home has never been his castle, the'male breadwinner marriage' is the least traditional family in history, and rape and sexual assault were far higher in the 1970s than they are today. In The Way We Never Were , acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz provides a myth-shattering examination of two centuries of the American family, sweeping away misconceptions about the past that cloud current debates about domestic life. The 1950s do not present a workable model of how to conduct our personal lives today, Coontz argues, and neither does any other era from our cultural past. This revised edition includes a new introduction and epilogue, looking at what has and has not changed since the original publication in 1992, and exploring how the clash between growing gender equality and growing economic inequality is reshaping family life, marriage, and male-female relationships in our modern era. Now more relevant than ever, The Way We Never Were continues to be a potent corrective to dangerous nostalgia for an American tradition that never really existed.