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Renowned psychologist Dr. Henry Cloud shows how to make your job and your life work together for success and satisfaction, using principles that have proven successful in other areas and relationships.

Dr. Henry Cloud's book BOUNDARIES has sold well over a million copies since its initial publication, and established itself as an undisputed classic in the field. Countless readers have benefited from its teaching that the secret to success without limit lies in setting limits to mark the things for which we're responsible.

In his new book The One Life Solution, Cloud extends his bestselling formula to the workplace and convincingly demonstrates that setting physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual boundaries at work is not only helpful, but essential to establishing a successful, happy, and rewarding career.

Do you feel that if you could get rid of some of the chaos in your work life, you could take your performance to a greater level? Do you stay late at the office many nights, trying to empty an inbox that never seems to diminish? Do you have difficulty dealing with cantankerous bosses or passive-aggressive coworkers? Do you find yourself checking your BlackBerry—almost against your will—during dates, family dinners, or your children's soccer games? If you've answered yes to any of the above, chances are you feel fragmented, pulled in too many directions at once, frustrated. Your work life has taken over your personal life.

In The One-Life Solution, Dr. Henry Cloud, consultant, bestselling author of the Boundaries series and Integrity, and clinical psychologist, examines the workplace. He demonstrates how our failure to maintain a unified life with good boundaries at the office not only blurs the line between the professional and the personal, but leaves us less equipped to deal with the problems of today's workplace: stress, heavy workload, and a blistering pace. As a result, we are overworked, overstressed, and unhappier than ever. Through real-world examples from years of working with leaders at companies large and small, Dr. Cloud shows us how to construct and enforce better boundaries against the technological devices, bullying bosses, and distracting coworkers who invade our time and space.

From conducting an audit of your time, to developing a policy of who you are and what you stand for, to learning how to overcome a paralyzing inability to say no, Dr. Cloud provides invaluable strategies and scripts for moving toward a more unified, coherent sense of self and a life that fully encompasses work, family, and spirituality. In a clear, conversational voice, he will help you develop the ability to:

• contain self-destructive behavior and keep it from spreading.
• define yourself and know who you are.
• set limits when needed.
• communicate effectively.
• learn how to improve your performance at the office and outside it.

By starting to do what's best for you, you'll find the key to living the one happy, fulfilling life that only you can live.